○Ego [11]

     The ego can take extremely cold actions such as ignoring or severing relationships, but on the other hand, once it has accepted someone, it can also show a strong sense of obligation. Consciousness, on the other hand, is not trapped by either, and shows the same love regardless of the attitude of the other person.

    Spontaneous thoughts lead to words and actions. If the content is verbal abuse or violence, it becomes a painful experience for the person on the receiving end. This behavior is also triggered by past memories. Unless you realize this, the act of hurting others will not heal. Deep emotional wounds can easily occupy the mind through intense spontaneous thoughts, leading to negative behavior.

    Children who were not blessed with the affection of parents or others in their early childhood, or who experienced discrimination or abuse, may eventually engage in delinquent or antisocial behavior, causing trouble for those around them. The person themselves may be feeling deep loneliness and act out in order to get attention from others. For example, like making noise with cars or motorcycles to attract someone's attention to fill the emptiness in their heart. Such behavior also comes from past memories as spontaneous thoughts, which determine the person's words and actions. If the person causes a lot of trouble, they will incur the resentment of those around them, and this can lead to a vicious cycle of further rebellion. Even for this, becoming no-minded can lead to resolution. It's necessary to exist consciously, observe thoughts carefully, recognize when past memories are automatically replayed as temporary, return to being no-minded, and make this a habit. Then, what is needed is a real determination to make this a habit.

    People who treat themselves roughly are also treated roughly by others. People who cherish themselves are also cherished by others.

    If you're usually lacking in confidence, you may receive more instructions or attacks from others. The ego is always looking for a target to attack, and it can sense people who lack confidence through their aura. Such people make the perfect target. In jobs or sports where results must be achieved, if you lack confidence, you may be blamed by your peers. Their ego fears losing or being disadvantaged. Overconfidence leads to complacency, but being no-minded means not being trapped by confidence or lack thereof.